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**HB Bristol edit: This happened on the morning of 9 July 2014***
Walking through Broadmead by Debenhams and a guy shouts “‘Ere love, looking good.” I ignored him and then he lifted up his top to show me his chest and said, “Who wouldn’t want a bit of this?” As I walked past he tutted loudly and called me “stuck up.” I was wearing a vest top and immediately put on my sweatshirt even though it was hot, then thought to myself “Why am i changing MY behaviour when this man is wrong?”
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Each and every story is valuable and helps make a difference to end street harassment. We need as many stories as possible to act as evidence and backup material when persuading local authorities to take action on street harassment.
One of the most common derailment techniques in discussions about street harassment is “Well it doesn’t happen to me, so it must not happen.” With a database of stories on Hollaback, we can prove that harassment does happen, and go some way to showing how widespread it is.
Other people who experience street harassment will read your story and realise they’re not alone. They may even feel empowered to Holla Back next time, and to start sharing their own stories.
Any potential harasser reading the collection of stories on a Hollaback! site receives a powerful message about what street harassment is and why it’s not OK. The fact that the details of their behaviour and possibly even a photo of them could end up online holds them to account for their actions, and serves as a deterrent.
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A car full of young men drove past the bus stop and one shouted “I’D DO YOU!” at me, they all the sniggered looking at each other very pleased with themselves.
***UPDATE… 2/7/2014. The company, Easy Access Scaffolding, have not replied to Vinne regarding the harassment***
I’m a 38 year old woman and today I walked past a group of constructors erecting scaffolding. As I walked past two of them whistled, shouted out repeatedly for me to say hello and talk to them. They weren’t being offensive in their language but I felt very ‘on show’ to others walking down the street and choosing to ignore them led to them carrying on longer and shouting more loudly. It felt disrespectful and as the scaffolding is near my home, I feel worried about walking past again.
I can’t remember the last time something like that happened, I’m new to Bristol, having moved from Sheffield recently, and nowadays am more used to construction firms sharing their community respect ethos than experiencing whistling!
Their van was clearly labelled with the firm’s name and address and I have emailed a senior manager to ask for feedback. I attached a link to Hollaback Bristol. Org and have said I would love to share that the firm had responded positively to my comments. I’ll not name and shame them ( unless they don’t reply or take this seriously !) . I really hope others don’t have to face misogyny or harassment walking along Alexandra Road.
Bristol-based writer Olga Alexandru has written a poem about street harassment, which I’m sure many will identify with. Read it here.
Earlier today I was walking from the bus stop to my flat when a passer-by leered at me and said “hello gorgeous.” I asked him to repeat himself, he said “hello gorgeous.” I told him that was harassment and he told me to keep my voice down. He started to try and make excuses to passers-by.
There were a lot of people around but no one tried to help me. Due to the number of times I’ve been harassed in the area I’m now scared to go out and am considering whether it will be possible for me to move house.
It was about 9pm and a man followed me up St Marks Road in his car, moving at a crawl. He wound his window down and asked if I wanted a lift. I told him to go away and he continued to follow me and ask me to get in the car, only speeding off when I got my phone out.
I am frustrated because I feel like as a woman I can’t walk around Easton on my own after dark without it being assumed, by certain men, that I am a sex worker.